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Opening Arguments

I hate your happy attitude

Guess I can stop feeling guilty about being a grouch when I first wake up, with an even lousier mood when having to cope with chirpy, cheerful "morning person" pests:

Does misery really love company?

An intriguing new study suggests that may be the case.

Researchers who study how people's sense of well-being varies from place to place decided to compare their findings with suicide rates.

The surprising result: The happiest places sometimes also have the highest suicide rates.

“Discontented people in a happy place may feel particularly harshly treated by life,” suggested Andrew Oswald of the University of Warwick in England.

Or, put another way by co-author Stephen Wu of Hamilton College in Clinton, N.Y., those surrounded by unhappy people may not feel so bad for themselves.

Just kidding. I don't really feel even a twinge of guilt. It's natural when feeling miserable to seek out those even worse off than we are. This is another one of those "well, duh" studies.

Know that old question --  "Would you rather have the nicest house in the worst neighborhood or the worst house in the nicest neighborhood?" -- often used as a conversation starter? How about this one: Would you rather be the happiest person in the most depressing place or the most depressed person in the happiest place?

Posted in: All about me, Science

Comments

Bob G.
Tue, 04/26/2011 - 8:54am

Leo:
The problem with that is all my good neighbors up and left (to be content elsewhere, because they could see the problems coming and didn't want to deal with them) and then all the lousy "neighbors moved in and gravitated to my (once nice) demeanor.
I've since become a lot less "forgiving" (and as a resulty a bit unhappy) an individual when it comes to THEIR mistakes and THEIR disrespect.
So I would be quite happy in a happy place...no doubt.

As for the current state of affairs down here?
I'm provisionally discontent...AND armed.
(the armed part keeps me happy, though)

Just for the record, we DO have the NICER house in a rapidly "getting worse" neighborhood, so anytime you want to start a convo....ring me up...lol.
Not a lick of guilt, though.

;)

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